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Chronic Illness Gift Guide – Blogmas #4

Forever one to create original content, I’ve decided to jump on the bandwagon and create a gift guide. Not any old gift guide but one containing some idea for the chronically awesome chronically sick person in your life.

Before I dive straight into the list I really must stress that us ill folk have interests outside of, you know, being ill. So if you know them well enough it’s probably best to go down that route and choose a more personal present. This is just my top five safe bets I know I personally, as well as many other illness warriors would be happy to receive.

Pajamas

Speaking for myself. I’m 90% sure I own more PJs rather than actual clothes. At least I definitely feel like I wear them more often. A nice pair of pajamas is a lovely treat and not something people often think of buying for themselves. A pretty safe bet and a present that you can splurge on or still get on a budget.

Hot Water Bottle / Warmer

As the weather gets colder and being someone who suffers with random aches and pains, there’s nothing I love more than being tucked up cuddling a hot water bottle or warmer. Whether you prefer a traditional bottle you fill with hot water from the kettle, or a microwaveable teddy, there’s a wide variety of gift sets out in the shops at the moment. I’d recommend the noozie, a rechargeable heat pack that stays warmer for longer than a hot water bottle, is easy and quick to use.

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A gift card

This may not sound that interesting. However I love nothing more than internet shopping. It’s even better when somebody else is paying for it. Not only have you given someone the potential to buy exactly what they want for Christmas. You’ve also bought the gift of something to keep me entertained for a couple of hours.

Pillows / Cushions / Fairy Lights

I spend a lot of time in my bed, therefore it being comfy and cozy is really important to me. Who doesn’t love cute cushions and twinkling lights?

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Socks / Hats / Scarfs / Gloves

Us sick folk get cold. There’s tons of cute gift sets containing these items around. I can never have too many pairs of socks and you can guarantee that if I have to step outside in the less than warm months, I’m gonna be wrapped up in enough scarfs and cozy material, that I could quite easily be mistaken for a ski resort guest.

Let me know what you’ve asked for this Christmas

Charlotte

xxx

 

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Coping with chronic illness at Christmas – Blogmas #2

Unfortunately for everyone out there with a chronic illness, you can’t just switch off your health issues in order to take a break and really enjoy the holiday festivities.

It’s difficult to explain exactly what is chronic illness warriors go through or how we feel, but Christmas especially, can be an exceptionally difficult time. One moment you’re spending 90% of your time alone in bed. The next you’re expected to spend 90% of your time with family and friends, thrown in the deep end and an active participant in all the festive season has to offer. It can feel a little overwhelming to say the least.

So what are you meant to do? How are you meant to deal with it all? A lot of managing chronic illness comes from experience, something I seem to unintentionally gathered from years of trial and error. In today’s post I thought I’d share my best tips / tricks / advice for coping this Christmas.

Remember Medication

Remember doctors surgeries and pharmacies opening hours may change of Christmas and New Year. Make sure you have enough medication to cover you through this period and remember to take it with you when out and about or staying away from home.

Plan & Pace

As much as possible try and develop a clear plan of what you’re doing and when, who you’re seeing and how long for. Try not to plan to much in one go. Include rest / self care time in order not to crash and burn

Say NO / Communicate

If something’s too much for you, you know it’s going to cause you pain / discomfort or you’re just not feeling it. Don’t be afraid to say no. Friends and family should understand. If they don’t well…. However most of your nearest and dearest wouldn’t want you to make yourself ill. Is there a family member or friend you could talk to about your illness? Someone who could support you if you start to not feel good? Don’t suffer in silence. It’ll only make you feel worse.

Rest / Self Care

If you’ve managed to plan, then you should have included some rest time. For example if I know in advance that I’m doing something active or all day on Saturday then I’ll rest most of Thursday and Friday, as well as Sunday. Take the time to catch up on sleep, have a long soak in the bath, whatever makes you feel good. If you aren’t feeling good and looking after yourself, it’ll be difficult to enjoy yourself.

Accept

Acceptance is such a big part of life with a chronic condition and I’ve spoken about it several times before. We need to accept that our lives are different to how they were. We may have to do things differently or accept that we can’t do them at all. It’s not easy buy any means, but speaking from my own experience, accepting I won’t be able to do everything the average person would this Christmas, is a big pressure of my shoulders. I’m totally ok with not being able to go late night shopping. All those crowds, out in the cold, the checkout queues. I’m honestly fine giving it a miss.

Have fun

Enjoy yourself !!! Having a health condition doesn’t mean you can’t have fun with your loved ones. Live in the moment and make memories you’ll have for a life time.

Anybody got a tip they want to share?

Don’t let chronic illness ruin your Christmas.

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The Opiate Crisis, My Thoughts – Blogtober – #20

So this post my not be the most interesting or relavent to the majority of blogtober readers, however it’s something I’ve wanted to share my thoughts on for a while.


The opiate crisis is a BIG deal, especially for chronic pain patients. News articles are pumped out daily, it’s not a subject you can easily ignore. The majority of stories seem to be originating from the states, but from personal experience I can tell you lives world wide are being affected.  

Doctors and government agencies seem to have designed the narrative that opiates / narcotics are practically the devil. Endless statistics are being pushed onto the public about addiction, the fact that they aren’t effective, doctor shopping, overdose etc. A lot of the information out there seems biased. Nobodies speaking about the lives these drugs have saved.

Yes opiates save lives!

But Charlotte people don’t die from pain alone.. Don’t they?

As doctors face losing their licenses and patients are having their medication cut down or stopped completely, more and more chronic pain patients are committing suicide. I genuinely don’t understand how cutting access to vital pain relief, to those who need it, is helping keep drugs off the street and preventing addiction.

Chronic pain patients have always had to fight to be believed, for decent treatment and care. Now the hoops we have to jump through are getting rediculous. Drug tests are regularly forced upon patients. Doctor / patient relationships have fallen apart all because of strict rules and opiate contracts. Break a rule, sometimes unavoidable, and risk having your meds cut off without warning. Drug hoarding is a punishable offence. Why would I not hoard meds when there’s a risk you could cut me off suddenly?

Opiate contracts are statistically shown to have little affect in identifying drug abusers.

Statistics on suicide or the number of previously law abiding citizens having to resort to the streets for meds don’t seem to be out there right now. These aren’t the statistics that support the idea that opiates are evil. These aren’t the figures the government wants us to see.

This may seem a little all over the place. That’s cool, they’re  my own thoughts and sometimes rambling on is the best way of sharing them. 

Ultimately I believe the real opiate crisis is that pain is so poorly treated in the first place. 

Charlotte 

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Interviewing A Fellow Chronic Illness Fighter – Blogtober #18

Earlier in the month I shared a little bit of my blogging background including the how and why I started. I mentioned how most people have a personal reason for starting to share their life online, and I was really interested in finding out other peoples stories.

So I thought I’d reach out to some of my blogger / social media chronic illness friends and perform a little interview. Hopefully posts like this will introduce you to some awesome new people to follow online, as well as offer some advice / tips / new points of view on chronic illness.

So with out further adieu. Meet my first interviewee.


 

Introduce yourself


My name is Roy George I’m 28 years old. I am a vocal coach, Vocal arranger and Music director. I also travel and speak on behalf of patient advocacy speaking at The Association for Vascular Access conferences and Short Bowel Syndrome conferences…

 
Can you tell us your diagnosis and the age you became ill?

I don’t remember a time i wasn’t “ill” I had this since birth. Its short Bowel Syndrome and massive malnutrition. 

What made you want to share your own chronic illness story and experiences?

 I spent a lot of time growing up without having people there to speak with about my journey and the dos and don’ts of life. It was really a trial and error experience. So with that being said, i really worked hard to allow myself to be open. Being open is a process and is truly something I struggle with and get nervous about. There’s a sense of vulnerability that comes with being open and sharing your journey. On the outside, i look incredible “Normal”. I’ve learned how to wear clothes that make me look “normal” and are stylish and look great. However, there comes a struggle thats deeper than the surface that people don’t get to see. We have the ability to make our social media accounts look like we live and lead extravagant lives but in reality we struggle. I wanted to be able to bust through the social media stigma and speak straight to people who were having a hard time and connect with people on levels that not everyone would understand. Trust me its STILL not easy but it really does give me great joy to be able to help in a small way if I’m able. 

How do you feel about the chronic illness community online?

I think like in any community you have AMAZING people and you have people that i will call positive suckers. Now, let me explain that phrase- that phrase means, I’m a glass half full kind of person. There’s always going to be people who ALWAYS see it half empty and that life is rough and theres a struggle. There is CERTAINLY validity to that. However, we all need to find the positives or else we won’t stand to be around for long. There will always be people who suck the life out of you and just want to take everything you give. You have to know your boundaries. What are you willing to talk about? What are you willing to share? How are you willing to share? What platforms make you most comfortable? Are you comfortable with social media contact or emails calls and texts. The community is hurting because there’s not a lot of outlets or want to discuss these intimate details. I mean you have all these Hollywood celebrities speaking out on cancer, and dry eye, alopecia and many other things and good for them. But what celebrity wants to talk about their bowel movements on national and international television? Its a natural thing. we all do it. But who wants to be KNOWN for that? Find the humor. find the joy. Don’t be afraid to be positive in a community that can sometimes be negative. I’m in no way saying the SBS community is negative as a whole. Negativity happens in any and every community no matter what. 

Do you have any advice or tips you’d like to share with someone newly diagnosed?

 Find the humor. Find where you can laugh at yourself. Find how you can look at yourself and see the glass half full. Oddly enough, someone ALWAYS has it worse than you. Parents have lost their children. Kids have lost their parents. Lets use our voice to get change. -Easier said than done but at least we can try. 

Do you have any advice or tip for friends and family of those diagnosed with a chronic illness?

DO NOT PUSH THEM. Don’t push them to share. Don’t push them to go out. Don’t push them to be happy. Don’t push them to be positive. Let them be mean and nasty. Meet them. Find ways to be effective and get what you want while not trying to change someone. As hard as it is on you to have a negative person in your life, try living with the condition and daily hangups that are normal for them. 

What’s the most irritating thing you’ve heard people say regarding your condition?

 “Just get some sleep you’ll be fine.” “You’ll feel better when you go out.” “You’re fine. It can’t be that bad.” “Are you really that sick.” “But you dont look sick.” 

How do you feel about the opiate crisis and how it’s affecting those with chronic illnesses?

I’m not familiar with it unfortunately. I know its getting more difficult to get pain killers because of this crisis. Unfortunately I’m uneducated in this department and for that I’m sorry. 

Tell us something positive you’ve achieved despite you illness.

 I’ve traveled around the country as a musician and singer and speaker. I’ve always performed off broadway at the age of 18 and have done some commercials and television as well. I’m pretty blessed that despite my condition, I’ve managed to not let it define me.

Where can we find more of you ?

 Please reach out on all the social media accounts twitter and instagram are Roysamuelgeorge and Facebook is Roy George and my Facebook page is Roy S. George You can also find me online at www.roygeorge.net and i host a podcast on iTunes called Triple Threats & Beyond and we’re also on twitter and instagram. Please reach out!!!! 

I hope you guys enjoyed getting to know Roy. Definitely go stalk him on social media. If you want to be a part of this series yourself, reach out on social media and maybe we’ll see your face here soon.

Love Charlotte

xxx